Your personal experiences matter, but they are incomplete without Jesus. 

The worldly narrative constantly drags us into a victim mindset. Every single person born in the flesh is sinful. Therefore, the effect of sin is at play in our lives. We are victims in need of rescue. 

When we talk about our traumatic experiences without bringing in the finished work of Christ on the cross, we remain in victimhood. We fail to convey how Christ has rescued us and how, now, we are on the path of complete healing as Jesus helps us live an overcoming life daily. 

If you believe you are still a victim, consider examining your belief in Christ. Also, talk to your local Pastor or an Elder you trust.

Jesus Christ completes us and nothing else.

The blood of Jesus rescued us, mortifying the deeds of the flesh through the power of His resurrection. Jesus completes us. 

Be careful not to be carried away by social media's spiritual motivation (or manipulation). The only way to discern is by spending quality time in personal prayer and meditation, apart from regular fellowship with fellow saints. 

Humility is necessary to separate your feelings from what God has said in His Word. 

God created man lower than angels to perfect man for eternity. Sin disrupted the road to perfection. Jesus sacrificed Himself on the cross to give us victory over sin, sickness, and fear of death. He did it by the power of the Holy Spirit. The same Holy Spirit is necessary to purify us daily so that we grow into the fullness of Christ. 

Your experiences are incomplete without Christ.

Be filled with Holy Spirit. Ask in Jesus' name, and you will get according to His will. Let Christ manifest in your life. Prepare to meet Jesus. Maranatha, Praise God, and Amen.